Jamie Lightner and Jessica Warren: A Couple of Misguided Sisters in Motherhood Who Are Here to tell ya, "It's Perfect Not to Be Perfect."
Wednesday, March 30, 2011
"Time out" for Mom.
I am finding the more my job picks up the pace the more juggling work, motherhood, and a housewife is challenging my OCD.  I am one who has specific laundry days and likes my house to look nice before I go to bed.  So when things get busy, as they were this week, I usually try to go 90mph, and still accomplish it all.  But this week I just let things go.  My laundry is piled up next to the washing machine out side my bedroom door.  And there are dishes in the sink.  Last week I worked till midnight four days in a row and I was exhausted.  But this week I worked very hard to set my OCD aside so I wouldn’t get so stressed that I decapitated one of my children for leaving a sock out.  Today I even took some “me” time.  Rather than cleaning like a mad woman, I sat and read a book.  A book that was inspirational, encouraging and teaching me knew ways to look at the principles I am learning these days.  It was great.  Actually refreshing and reviving.  After my little “time out” I cooked dinner and fed the kids.  As usual things were chaotic and I had to break up a couple spats and deal with Bo, who wasn’t feeling the greatest tonight, but I was surprisingly calm.  I didn’t run Kate through the ringer for tattling, and I wasn’t even tempted to put Bo on Ebay, even though he was extremely whiny.  So I am thinking taking time for “me” in the middle of a busy week, was a good idea.  Now if I can just remember to let go of my OCD more often.  I encourage you to take some “me” time.  And let it be something that encourages you and revives you.  See if it makes a difference in your day like it did mine.   And then back to the laundry tomorrow I go!
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